Community Spotlight: ABCs of Building Better Lives

By Bobbie Fenno

Dedicated to creating safe, affirming spaces for healing and growth, ABCs of Building Better Lives offers compassionate and inclusive support to people from all walks of life, including members of Erie's LGBTQIA+ community. Located at 4320 Dexter Avenue, this holistic counseling practice helps individuals, couples, and families navigate life's challenges with dignity, understanding, and professional expertise.

Founded in 2007 by Mary Lynn Rote, LPC, CADC, ABCs of Building Better Lives has grown into a trusted resource for mental health and wellness in Erie. With over three decades of experience, Rote leads a diverse team of licensed counselors and social workers dedicated to addressing a wide spectrum of concerns, from anxiety and depression to trauma and addiction. Their work is grounded in a whole-person approach that honors each individual's identity and lived experience.

ABCs offers a comprehensive range of services, from individual, couples, and family counseling to support with trauma, addictions, grief, and life transitions. Their practice is rooted in evidence-based techniques such as CBT, EMDR, DBT, and the Gottman Method, while maintaining a compassionate, client-centered approach. In addition to mental health counseling, ABCs also provides health and wellness services, educational offerings, and yoga classes. The organization further embraces alternative paths to healing through counseling experiences in nature and walking sessions.

What sets ABCs apart is its strong commitment to inclusivity and culturally sensitive care. The practice includes clinicians with broad expertise who welcome clients of all sexual orientations and gender identities. Counselors bring experience working with both heterosexual and LGBTQ populations, ensuring that therapy is tailored to meet diverse needs. This includes affirming therapeutic spaces where clients can explore questions around sexual orientation, gender identity, self-esteem, relationships, parenting, and family dynamics without fear of judgment.

In a community where mental health resources matter deeply, ABCs of Building Better Lives plays an essential role. Whether through traditional in-office therapy or telehealth options, their team continues to provide a safe, welcoming space where every person can pursue healing, connection, and growth.

For more information about services, volunteer opportunities, or upcoming programs, ABCs of Building Better Lives can be reached at 4320 Dexter Avenue in Erie, by phone at (814) 825-2930, or by email at buildingbetterlives@gmail.com. Or visit their website at www.marylynnrote.com.

About the Author

Bobbie Fenno Bobbie Fenno (She/Her) joined as a contributing editor in 2025, but has been involved with Erie Gay News as a folding volunteer previously. She graduated from the University of Phoenix with a Bachelor's degree in Business, a certificate in Project Management, and an Associate's in Information Technology. Bobbie is also an active member of the LBT Women of Erie group and was also a board member for the NWPA Pride Alliance for four years (2021-2024).