There is More Than One Way to Be Isolated

from SafeNet Erie

What do COVID-19 exposure and Intimate Partner Violence have common?

Isolation.

In an unhealthy relationship, the abusive partner often uses isolation to protect and extend their need for power and control. This can include controlling who you see, where you go, and what you do. They limit outside activities and contact with family and friends. You are forced to account for your time, whereabouts, spending, and phone contacts. Time spent away from them is seen as either abandonment or proof you are cheating. You might even be coerced into moving someplace where you don't have family or friends for support.

Why does the abusive partner do this? Ask them, and they might give an answer that's meant to keep you silent. It's because they love you. They get jealous whenever they aren't with you, and jealousy is proof of their love.

Deep down you know that in healthy relationships, partners show love through mutual respect, trust, honesty, fairness, and equality. If you feel isolated and need to speak with someone confidentially, call SafeNet's hotline at 814-454-8161.

Special Note: October is National Domestic Violence Awareness Month. Be watching for news about RUSafe (download from Google or Apple/iTunes), a free mobile app providing support for those in unhealthy relationships and those concerned about someone they know.