Wow. I am not sure, but I think that Paul Janka is basically the character the Tom Cruise played in Magnolia.
Of my virtues, chastity is perhaps not the most conspicuous (to put it mildly), but there is a vast difference between an energetic libido and pushiness and exploitiveness bordering on sexual assault. There is a sequence in the video at his site where he says something about wanting women in a controlled environment, so that he can escalate it into a sexual situation. Myself, I don't believe in casting pearl necklaces before swine, so to speak. If you have to coerce someone into it, it just feels pathetic and graspy and needy. Eeyew!
Also check this thread on Gawker about his dating seminar.
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