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Is Sex More Psychological or Physiological?

I am a regular reader of your column.  You often mention not to compare ourselves to others, but it seems that most men I've spoken to can have an orgasm with a blow job. It feels OK when someone goes down on me, I get excited and become erect, but the erection doesn't last.  I never feel like I've had an orgasm from a blow job.  I often feel "obligated" to please my partner and don't feel worthy of someone showering me with attention.  I have had orgasms with partners, it just usually involves penetration.  I don't feel that I have to be "versatile" in every sexual act, but I can't help wondering if I'm missing something. 
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